Nudging is an art, if perfected with devotion and passion, will always pay back in tons . Often we try to get worked up while supporting our loved ones and friends in their work, chores,  tasks , business and startup.

In that, we usually take the high ground and try to dictate things from our perspective & experience, this approach backfires most of the time . Instead of that, one should try to use ”The Art of Nudging”. Nudging others to stay in course during the difficult/testing times can be a refreshing way of doing things to get the desired outcome.

One can reach the desired goal in an incremental way. It helps to understand the other person’s perspective in a granular way and each nudge reveals something which would be quite helpful, in  understanding the underlying challenges of the current situation.

The goal of nudging somebody is to try and make them understand that they can do it and achieve it. Nudge them away from their negative thinking and turn their focus to see the goodness in them and  in their abilities and talent.

So be the nudger, it would do a world of good to one’s soul and it would create all the positive energies within you &  make you believe in yourself so much that you would be the positive force to be reckoned with.

Life on the earth has evolved over billions of years where a single cell started nudging itself to evolve into different species with varied intelligence in a slow &  excruciating process that  stretched to millions of years.

So don’t be afraid of perfecting the art of nudging in everything as long as it is not affecting anybody in an adverse way and also destabilizing your confidence .

When things get tough one needs to rely on this, i.e. nudging. It may not get you the quick result but you are assured of success in the long run. Every iteration of nudging would allow you to think in a way that would  alter the DNA of your approach which would make you a completely different person.

Pondering and rethinking can lead to more self doubt rather than creating a positive outlook on one’s own abilities and talent, so throw that approach away and perfect the art of nudging.

By practicing nudging everyday in our lives, one can make this as a habit which will turn out to be a good investment that would yield very good returns.